This Airbnb in St. Augustine has a great vibe. The tiny pool is actually a “cool tub” with a chiller for the hot summers.

Open-plan living space with surfboard wall decor, blue sofa, dining table, kitchen bar stools, and backyard visible through sliding doors. Rectangular pool with blue water on a stone paver patio, surrounded by lounge chairs, umbrellas, a dining table, and a giant Connect Four game, enclosed by a white fence with large oak trees overhead.

I remember 10-year-old me being envious of the cool Pinewood Derby cars my cousins Josh and Jarvis had made in Scouts. “It’s strange the stuff we remember” — indeed.

Blogging as a Gift

Engagement is the powerful drug of social platforms. Sometimes it is blatant and in your face, such as a notice that your post is trending. More often it is wrapped as a feature, such as analytics as addiction letting you know how many views, likes, and other such engagement your post receives. This feedback loop is a slot machine: random, addictive, and unpredictable.

Being a blogger removes all of that. As Manton Reece, the creator of micro.blog, recently shared no one cares (for now), and that is okay. This is writing on the web. First off it is almost always harder to write a blog post. This post has structure, sentences and paragraphs, not just a “blurb” spewed into the melee. Actual thoughts strung together with English grammar. The open web lacks engagement devices such as those views, likes, and “re-whatevers”. You may trigger an email. I got one of those this morning from Manu on a post I wrote yesterday. That’s rare. And no one else knows. No one sees that I received a “❤️ 1”.

So why do it? Why write post after post into the void with nobody engaging? Why bother with a more difficult approach?

I’ve been blogging for two decades. It isn’t all that different from journaling, but it is completely open and world readable. I would encourage bloggers to not think about the individual post. Instead, think about the collection of writing, over weeks and years, as a body of work. It is a body of work that you are constantly adding to. Growing and improving. The individual post is but one breath. It comes and goes. But over the course of time this adds up. It is the cumulative action that creates something truly great.

But who is your audience? Who is this for? You. Yourself. Your family. Your friends. Your friend’s friends. Your neighborhood. And they can have it whenever they want. As a gift. A gift from you to them. Not a gift to be measured in engagement, but instead as a body of work. A gift to the web, which is a gift to people.

Florida Spring Break: Day 5

  • Up at 7:00 am.
  • Leave Airbnb at 7:30 and drive to Turner’s donuts for breakfast
  • Drive to Kennedy Space Center
  • Listened to Nintendo Direct — Switch 2 on the drive.
  • Experience Kennedy Space Center: Rocket Garden, Astronaut Hall of Fame, VIP behind the scenes bus tour, Saturn V building, Atlantis Building, Ice Cream at Milky Way, Modern building (unknown name)
  • Left Kennedy Space Center right as they closed
  • Got gas and visited a WaWa
  • Ad-hoc dinner plans at Ferreri Pizza
  • Finish drive to St. Augustine
  • Check in to Airbnb in St. Augustine
Google Maps route from Anna Maria Island north through Orlando and Kennedy Space Center to St. Augustine, 281 miles, 4 hours 43 minutes.

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Stopped at Turner’s Donuts to get a bite before hitting the road.

  • Jamie: Cherry Cake, German Chocolate
  • Tyler: Raised with White Frosting, Bavarian Cream
  • Tammy: Chocolate Cake, Chocolate Iced Cruller
  • Mazie: Blueberry Cake, Sour Cream Old Fashioned

All that, with a coffee, for $11.

Donut shop display case with dozens of donuts on yellow trays, labeled by variety, with a price menu board above showing donuts from $1.20 each.

Florida Spring Break: Day 4

  • Mazie and Tammy run on the beach.
  • Tyler and Jamie go to North Shore Cafe but it’s closed. Instead they go back to Mademoiselle Paris for coffee and an eclair.
  • Tammy meets up with Tyler and Jamie at Ginny and Jane E’s for breakfast. The crème brûlée French toast is very good. Mazie stays back to read on the beach.
  • Tammy, Jamie, and Mazie return the rental beach chair, umbrellas and boogie board to the Lazy Turtle.
  • We ride our bikes to Holmes Beach and the Kingfish Boat Ramp.
  • Tammy and Mazie make a quick stop at Publix for boat snacks.
  • We meet Jeremy and take a boat tour of the bay for a few hours where we snorkel on a sandbar, see manatees, and dolphins and cruise around the bay.
  • We ride our bikes to Bradenton Beach with dinner at SMOQEHOUSE!
  • We ride back to our Airbnb after dinner and head to the beach.
  • Tyler and Mazie hang out in the ocean while Jamie sits in the sand and Tammy looks for shells.
  • We have our last sunset on the beach.
  • Everyone cleans up and we walk to Dips for ice cream. Turns out 9pm ice cream is very popular.

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Tammy and I at sunset on Anna Maria Beach. 🥰

Couple smiling together on a sandy beach at sunset, sun low on the horizon over calm ocean water.

Sunset from Anna Maria Island.

Brilliant orange sunset over calm ocean waves on a sandy beach with two seagulls silhouetted in the sky

Finished cycling 4.64 miles in 30.1 minutes. We actually rode twice this but I only recorded the route from Smoqehouse back to the Airbnb. There is really just the one main road that goes up Anna Maria Island. It has a bike path on the side so is an okay ride even though there can be a lot of traffic. 🚴‍♂️

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SMOQEHOUSE

Smoqehouse opened in 2016 in the now defunct Faribo West Mall in Faribault, MN. This was a short drive from our cabin and they had delicious pulled pork sandwiches. This became a regular part of our cabin weekends — a dinner visit to Smoqehouse. A year after opening this first location they expanded to Northfield and shortly after that opened a location in Anna Maria Island. Sadly for us the Faribault location eventually shut down, and the Northfield location sadly had a kitchen fire and was destroyed along with the historic hotel it was in.

We were without the delicious pulled pork from Smoqehouse. For years. In the meantime I’ve vastly improved my pulled pork technique and have gotten it pretty darn close — but we still miss our visits to Smoqehouse.

Since we were heading to Anna Maria Island, there was no way we were going to miss an opportunity to visit! And we were super happy to be greeted by Andrew Kubes who we used to see in Northfield in those early 2016 visits. He shared that we now are members of a fairly small group of folks that have were diners at the Faribault and Anna Maria Island locations.

Exterior of Smoqehouse restaurant on Anna Maria Island with black facade, striped umbrellas over wooden picnic tables, and palm trees overhead.
Great barbecue in here!

Five people smile together inside a dark-walled barbecue restaurant with branded T-shirts hanging on the wall behind them.
We got a family photo with Andrew Kubes!

Vintage Edison-style pendant bulbs with spiral filaments hang from the ceiling of a dark industrial-style restaurant dining room.
These lights are the exact same look that the Faribault location had in the big community table.

Chalkboard menu listing sandwiches, sides, and kids meals at a barbecue restaurant, with a paper roll salad menu mounted on the wall beside it.
Same chalk menu board!

Interior of a barbecue restaurant with three black metal signs on the wall depicting a bull, pig, and chicken, above rustic wooden bench seating and black tables with paper towel rolls.
These cow, pig, and chicken images were also in the Faribault location.

Bradenton Herald newspaper clipping dated August 19 2017 featuring an article about Smoqehouse restaurant on Anna Maria Island
Write-up in the Bradenton Herald on Smoqehouse.

Vintage blue Chevrolet 3100 pickup truck with white sidewall tires and a Smoqehouse logo on the door, parked on gravel.
Smoqehouse on wheels! Nice looking pickup.

And how about the barbecue? Love the classic barbecue style dinner trays.

Tammy got the classic pulled pork sandwich — good as ever!

Woman in a colorful cycling jersey holds a tray with a pulled pork sandwich on a brioche bun, seasoned fries, and a dipping sauce at an outdoor table.

Tyler tucked in on the brisket burger. His only regret was not making it a double!

Teen with long blond hair and a backward gray cap biting into a pulled pork sandwich on a brioche bun at an outdoor picnic table.

Mazie had the chicken and thought it was great.

Smiling young person with braces wearing a yellow long-sleeve shirt sitting at an outdoor picnic table with a pulled pork sandwich and curly fries on a metal tray

I got the Cubano and it was amongst the best. This was not a regular menu item in Faribault.

Two halves of a toasted pressed sandwich filled with ham, pickles, and cheese, served on a metal tray with a side of pink dipping sauce.